We understand everyone has different standards, so we will be defining ours clearly.  If they align closely with yours, or you feel you can respect and keep our standards as stated, please join us! 

We believe in being modest in dress, appearance, environment, and behavior.

 

We define modest formalwear as: 

• Keeping  backs, shoulders, cleavage, and midriffs covered in clothing that is not see through

• Young Women should have skirt  lengths that cover legs from the knees up, with skirt slits not going higher than three inches above the knee

• Having clothing that covers underwear

• Young Men should wear tuxedos, suits,  dress slacks, button up shirts, and ties.

 

We define modest in environment as:

• Enough lighting that there are no dark corners

• Themes that do not encourage inappropriate behavior for minors such as gambling, violence, crime, substance abuse or sexual promiscuity

• Chaperones that are engaged in the event and care about the needs of guests  

• Music that does not encourage sexual promiscuity, violence, crime, or substance abuse

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We define modest in behavior as:

• No profane language/swearing/cussing.  Don't be a potty mouth!

•  No erotic dancing styles such as grinding, juking, freaking, bending, twerking, 'dirty dancing', etc..

• Not demonstrating inappropriate public displays of affection, such as passionate kissing or touching of someone else's 'privates'